The things we dismiss as “not meant to be” are those that we didn’t want badly enough. We think of them as something that isn’t meant to happen, but in reality, we lacked the courage and the strength to make them happen. We blame everything to these things called “fate” and “destiny”, but really, if we think about it, we could have made it happen if we wanted to.

It’s just that sometimes, we don’t want to, and sometimes, giving up is a better option than getting hurt.